Archive for December, 2007

We’re Back at Home

Saturday, December 8th, 2007

Noelle was mad. She wanted to go to Grandma’s house and stay with Grandma (Jeremy’s mom.) I think she may have overheard me saying something to Jeremy about letting one of the kids go there sometime soon.

It was a good visitation and funeral. Grandma Anna’s old body looked good, but I’m so glad she has a new one with none of the aches, pains, and diabetes. We celebrated how wonderful she was and the fact that she is now in Heaven with God. She was a very vocal Christian and worked in many positions in the church and WMU (Women’s Mission Union, I think). Even after she was no longer able to go to church, she would study her daily lesson, read her Bible daily, and pray for all her family. She was an inspiration to many and God used her in so many ways.

I enjoyed helping take care of her when we lived there. She would sit and tell me lots of stories from when she was little and later when teaching in the church. She loved all my kids a lot, but she would have spoiled Noelle if we’d let her. She was so happy that Noelle was so small as a baby because she was able to actually help me out by holding Noelle often. Even after Noelle got older, she learned to climb up into Grandma Anna’s chair and sit on her lap and would fall asleep up there. Many times they’d nap together in the afternoon. Grandma Anna liked to slip Noelle food from her plate, usually pieces of her cookies or small spoonfuls of pudding. She encouraged me with the kids and loved when they would play in the living room where she could watch them. After we moved out, whenever we came to visit, the two little kids would come in and climb up in her lap and tell her all kinds of things.

It’s so hard to try and write about her because I can’t really put into words what she was like and what I felt about her. I’m so glad God gave me the opportunity to be around her so much.

I will miss her, but I also know that someday I will see her again.

Goodbye Grandma Anna

Monday, December 3rd, 2007

She went to Heaven around 8:00 am today.

I’m driving back home tomorrow morning with the kids to feed the cats and get some clothes that we’ll need.

The visitation is on Thursday evening and the Funeral is on Friday afternoon. More details are on Read’s blog. Jeremy’s work did it’s best to help him get back earlier. He’ll be flying into Chicago early on Thursday morning and we’ll be driving down.

Latest Update Grandma Anna

Sunday, December 2nd, 2007

From Read’s blog:

The medicine wasn’t working so the family convened and decided that they should take her off of it, so they did.

its all in Gods hands now.

She is ready to go, I know no one else more ready to go. If it is her time, then the Lord can have her. We will all miss her though, she is a great woman and has left a great legacy.

they just moved her to a private room on the 6th floor, room 648. I think at this point there is nothing that they can’t do here for her that they could do in icu.

My Memorization Verse of the Week

Sunday, December 2nd, 2007

It was a good verse for me at this time.

“The Lord is my rock, and my fortress, and my deliverer, my God, my rock, in whom I will trust, my buckler, and the horn of my salvation, and my high tower.” Psalm 18:2 KJV

Jeremy is leaving on a week long business trip in Florida today. I’ve not had the kids by myself for this long. I take care of them everyday and have him home in the evenings and when I’ve gone anywhere without him, I have had my sister or mom or mother-in-law around to help. I know I can do it, but it will be crazy. We are praying for Grandma Anna as well. That situation is very hard on us. The kids were told and are upset except for Noelle who doesn’t understand. I know that Jeremy is prepared to fly back early if needed. Anyway, I am going to drop Jeremy off at the train station so he can make the trip to the airport and then we are going to church because I need the worship and fellowship. After church, the kids and I are traveling down to Jeremy’s parents house. I have a friend who will be watching the kids for a little while on Monday, so I can go to the hospital. I feel like everything is crazy, but I know that the Lord is good and will help me through it all.

The Latest Two Updates on Grandma Anna

Saturday, December 1st, 2007

From Read’s blog:

well its a waiting game now.

she is asleep, but they can’t get her to wake up. the doctor says it may take her several days for the medicine to kick in. they did another cat scan but it is hard to tell, there may be a little more blood but they they think it is holding steady.

grandma is a resilient person but this may be the end of it, only time will tell.

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the dr came in and explained to the whole family just now. the whole family decided that surgery isn’t an option even though it was offered.

this is the deal: there is no further bleeding in the brain but there isn’t any draining going on either. here is where it gets bad, her brain is replenishing its spinal fluid so the fluid buildup is creating a pressure buildup that has put her to sleep. she may wake up but the general consensus is that this may be the end for her.

they are not giving up, they are using medicines to help dry up the blood and water in the brain. hopefully it will work.